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16/02/2026 8:14 pm
To start I have only been with two partners so I have no idea what would cause this or if it's common, and because I don't want to hurt her feelings I've been holding back from blatantly asking. Anyway when me and my current girlfriend started dating she was extremely tight and remained that way for the first 4 months. It was to the point that it took a lot of lube and a good while to work up to actually being able to penetrate her. Now rolling into 6months she has become very loose, some times it's difficult for me to get enough sensation or friction to actually finish.. I asked her if she still plays with her toys when she's not with me, as an attempt to find a reason. The answer was no and she has actually thrown out the only 2 she had. I'm currently living with her so I can say with certainty they are gone... I'm the one to take the trash out. So I'm pretty confused at this point and like I said do not want to ask out of fear it could hurt her feelings. It makes me concerned because the last girl I had this exp with was sleeping with other guys with in 30mins to an Hour of coming over my place... which made for a noticeable difference.
Maybe a woman or someone with more exp than myself can chime in. I don't have a lot of male friends to ask so I've resorted to the awkward post on the forums : /
16/02/2026 8:34 pm
How often do you nail her? It's very possible you have just broken her in man. Was she a virgin or very inexperienced when you got with her 6 months ago? Either this is the case, or every night when you fall asleep she goes to get hollowed out by this guy:
A mod should move this thread to The Pit...
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16/02/2026 8:52 pm
2-3 times a week, max 4. And no virgin here... I'm her 8th partner
17/02/2026 8:37 am
In all honesty, I think there are a number of things that could contribute to this, and I wouldn't be too worried man. For example, my girl rides horses. This doesn't do good things if you know what I mean. It may be time to open the discussion of different access points with her...
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17/02/2026 12:15 pm
Um yea she wont let me go near the back door... I'll just discuss it with her so she understands my issue and maybe she'll understand idk. Like I said was trying to avoid hurting her feelings.
17/02/2026 12:44 pm
Good luck, bro. Hopefully she'll understand
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17/02/2026 1:12 pm
Maybe she's just not that turned on? The vagina does swell up and "tighten" when under extreme arousal ..
Well... that or Jamal's been giving your girl the ride of her life
17/02/2026 1:37 pm
There are pelvic exercises she can do to tighten it up a little if its an issue. It wont be like new but you can definitely tell the difference.
17/02/2026 1:57 pm
It going to have the hurt feelings if it really is Jamal I'd clear it up
17/02/2026 2:16 pm
Unless she recently gave birth or she is using a bowling pin as a dildo she is not "loose" because of being fucked. When a female gets very excited they get "wet and ready", it sounds like she is just getting to that point now and does not need the lube. Or, she has an above average sized vagina and you have a below average sized cock.
17/02/2026 2:38 pm
Unless she recently gave birth or she is using a bowling pin as a dildo she is not "loose" because of being fucked. When a female gets very excited they get "wet and ready", it sounds like she is just getting to that point now and does not need the lube. Or, she has an above average sized vagina and you have a below average sized cock.
this.
the vagina actually lengthens and expands when aroused.
She may be worried to tell you that your cock isn't big enough for her giant vagina...
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17/02/2026 2:56 pm
I would'nt say anything,because what u say will most likely hurt her feelings and that will always be on her mind when u have sex with her,,,,
17/02/2026 3:17 pm
I would'nt say anything,because what u say will most likely hurt her feelings and that will always be on her mind when u have sex with her,,,,
Ranman is right. Best to not say anything
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17/02/2026 3:35 pm
I would'nt say anything,because what u say will most likely hurt her feelings and that will always be on her mind when u have sex with her,,,,
I disagree..., if it's an issue for you then you have to bring it up, ...how the proper way of doing that in this situation I'm not sure.... But if the sex ain't good for you eventually you'll lose interest in pleasing her as well and then overtime the whole relationship will go to shit.
If you find someone you can talk openly about anything with then you have someone you can live with and have a good meaningful relearionship alongside.
Communication and honesty ( painful or not ) 2 big keys in a successful relationship.
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17/02/2026 4:06 pm
the one thing that helps strengthen and tighten the vaginal walls is Kegel exercises ~ https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/womens-health/in-depth/kegel-exercises/art-20045283
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